A year after the murder of Borja Villacísher sister, the former vice mayor of Madrid Begoña Villacíshas reappeared on television to speak for the first time about the drama that has marked his life. Has done it in the program And now Sonsolesfrom Antena 3, where he has been visibly affected by remembering that June 4, 2023, when his brother was shot dead on the Fuencarral-El Pardo road.
Borja’s death not only shocked the violence of crime, but because it is the brother of a known political figure. Since then, Villacís had chosen to depart from public life. “I don’t … I turned off television and dedicated myself to the important”He confessed excitedly when he first see images of the event on the set.
The refuge after the tragedy
In her speech, the former Madrid councilor talked about how she found refuge after the murder: “For me the only important thing is My family, my life, my environment. I am lucky to have an environment that responds very well, I have very good friends. ”He also said he decided to stay out of the media after the crime, considering that many of the information were false or harmful.
“I got things, a lot of garbage, a lot of lie. But I am not going to get into that,” he said, before highlighting his parents’ strength before the tragedy. “They are believers and that has helped them a lot. I have very admirable parents, ”he said, visibly proud of his family’s strength.
How knew that Borja had been killed
Villacís also reported how he learned about his brother’s death. “Almeida called me. He left an interview and was also driving. “Life is not always beautiful. That day it touched me,” he confessed, pointing out that although he usually relativizes problems, this time it was impossible.
On his way of facing the duel, it was clear: “I decided to live it without anesthetizing. I think that in life you also have to suffer, we are not very mentalized. ”In that sense, he explained that he did not turn to therapy, and defended his way of dealing with pain:“ It helps me not to be aware of myself. I take care of myself taking care. ”
Far from manuals or external recipes, Villacís opted for an intimate process of healing: “There is no orthodox way. One is informed, but each one has its way. Mine was not going to therapy and saying: ‘Healthy healing culito de frog, if not healthy today, he will heal tomorrow,” he said with a mixture of nostalgia and irony.
“This hurts a lot, but it has to hurt. It’s a Tribute to my brotherfor the importance I have had in my life. The pain will always be there, but you can live it with more serenity, ”reflected politics, which reiterated the importance of accompanying his.“ ”I allowed myself to be hurt and suffer”.
Finally, Villacís launched a reflection for those who are going through similar situations. “Later or later, families suffer from something. A year has passed. When something like this happens, I wish I would have been with him longer,” he acknowledged. And he concluded: “Each one has their instruction manual. Things should be lived to have perspective”.
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