Amid a wave of controversy, content creator Aída Victoria Merlano and the streamer known as Westcol have become the center of attention on social networks.
This is due to a recent live broadcast in which a Westcol’s alleged infidelitywhose real name is Luis Villa, towards the Barranquilla influencer.
During transmission, An incident that occurred a month ago was mentioned, when Villa invited a woman named Nataly Morales to a box at the Dulcinea nightclub.According to the streamer, nothing significant happened between them, beyond a few exchanged messages.
This situation sparked the anger of Aída Victoria, who minutes after the broadcast, used her Instagram stories to announce her breakup.
“I love him with all my heart, but above the love I feel for him is the love I feel for myself. There are things I am not willing to allow. We are no longer together,” the influencer said.
Since then, Westcol has tried unsuccessfully to reconcile with her, posting multiple messages of forgiveness and love on his social networks, and even sharing a video in which he is seen crying and expressing his desire to spend the rest of his life with Aída.
The conversation with Blessd and his advice
Despite her efforts, Westcol’s statements did not succeed in making Aída Victoria reconsider her decision. The influencer, clearly affected by the situation, decided to end her relationship with Villa, emphasizing her own self-love above all else.
In a video, Aída detailed her feelings, stressing the importance of her relationship with herself and her refusal to tolerate unacceptable situations. “I don’t have a relationship with her. I don’t even know who she is; I do know him, I do have a relationship with him and he failed me. So, I love him with all my heart, but above the love I feel for him is the love I feel for myself and more important than my relationship with him is my relationship with myself, which is the one that has cost me the most to build and there are things that I am not willing to allow between anyone, we are not together anymore and that is the story,” she explained.
Amidst the emotional turmoil, Westcol has found solace in her followers and has generated content related to her situation. In one of these videos, Villa is shown asking for advice from a close friend, the artist known as Blessd, whose real name is Stiven Mesa Londoño.
Blessd, who has a close relationship with Westcol, shared with him a strategy that he has used in his own romantic relationships, known as the “ignore and deny”.
“You have to do that and now, put it in your head, that is in your blood, remember that you are a star, daddy. You carry it inside, but by ignoring and denying you strengthen it through things happening to you, for example, like what happened to you today, you get it into your head that you are going to ignore and deny,” were the words from the singer.
Blessd also suggested that such a tactic should become a daily mantra: “Ignore and deny, from the moment you wake up; the blessing is poured, ignore and deny, breakfast, ignore and deny; lunch, ignore and deny; and you see it like that all day long until it comes out naturally,” he explained.
Although the concept of “ignore and deny” is not entirely clear, seems to refer to a way of handling uncomfortable situations or unwanted advances. To this advice, Westcol responded with some hesitation: “People are telling me to apply it and the truth is that this strategy is not in my body and, well, I want it not to enter.”
Additionally, Blessd recommended two songs to help Villa cope with his pain.: “Look at me in the background” and “The wounded condor”, highlighting them as the best options for the week.
Aída Victoria’s perspective
Aida Victoria has also spoken out about her painful decision, using her social networks to share her feelings with her followers. In a video, The influencer confessed how difficult this breakup has been for herexplaining that the most complicated thing is not the separation itself, but everything that comes after.
“The hardest part of a breakup isn’t the breakup itself, but everything that happens afterwards, because the other person prefers to think only about their grief and that they are the only one who is suffering and that the other person is not hurting and they forget everything that one is letting go,” she said.
The influencer also revealed that she had serious expectations about her relationship with Westcol, dreaming of a future together.. “I am an empowered woman and my priority is always work, and I dreamed again about home, the house, the dog and the children, I was broken, love scared me and I believed again. Because of the love I feel, it burns me the way it burns,” she commented.
Aída ended her message by saying that, although she believes in second chances, she needs time to process what happened.: “Sometimes you need time to process things, so it’s hurting me too. “I’m also turned into my ***, and I also feel like my heart is being ripped out of my chest,” she concluded.
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