I’m often approached in public settings by unfamiliar men who ask to know my height

I’m often approached in public settings by unfamiliar men who ask to know my height
I’m often approached in public settings by unfamiliar men who ask to know my height

“Miss Manners” Judith Martin

DEAR MISS MANNERS: On many occasions over the course of my life, I’ve been approached in public settings by unfamiliar men who asked to know my height.

Without waiting for an answer, they say something like, “You must be at least 6 foot, because I am 5-foot-10.” These men are invariably much shorter than their stated heights, which further adds to the discomfort of the situation.

It’s happened many times, in nearly an identical way each time, and I am just as flummoxed for a response in my 40s as I was in my teens. How would Miss Manners suggest I respond?

GENTLE READER: “5-foot-10, you say? Weird. So am I.”

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(Please send your questions to Miss Manners at her website, www.missmanners.com; to her email from her, [email protected]; or through postal mail to Miss Manners, Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.)

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